Seeking 30-ish beauty... Not JUST looking for sex... Someone just told me that my profile makes it sound like I am just looking for sex. I am not. Yes, I like sex and, yes, but I won't have sex with just anyone. I have to like the person, trust them and have a little bit of faith in them. I want to be friends. I want a woman who will like me, all of me, mind, body and soul, at least as a friend. OK. I am up for anything! My last relationship was very long and I am eager to shake out the old habits and broaden my scope. I want to find a woman, women, couple or group who is sexual and experimental. I want you to be my partner. I would like us to explore L.A.s adult oriented side. I want to visit the clubs and parties that are strictly adults-only. \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\**Please know this: I adore ALL women! And Truth be told, I am thrilled and flattered with the attention of any woman of almost any type. (can't help it, and ain't gonna feel bad about it) I love all shapes and sizes, colors and flavors, ALL AGES and ALL TYPES of women. And I Want to hear from you all. But, for now, I find myself more attracted to or desiring a young, petite, exotic, sexual, experimental woman. I have always liked young women, I want a woman in her twenties to early thirties**. I like small women, I like good curves, but I like a petite frame. Exotic, I have always had a preference for asian, latin, persian, indian, and black women**. She must be sexual, in fact, I want a woman who masturbates. why? A woman who masturbates (herself or gets someone to do it for her) and enjoys her toys, is a woman who likes to feel her body and isn't likely to go without. She is a woman who wants to get off. I have noted that women who don't turn themselves on and haven't taken steps to assure themselves of pleasure, are willing to go without, if it isn't convenient. That isn't enough drive for me. I want the girl who's gotta have it... (even if it's mechanically induced)(at least once in a while), isn't ashamed about it, and, ideally, would like me to be there. This SINGLE, STR8 man isn't quite perfect (check-out that humility...), but perfectly happy about it, and I'm gettin' better and better, improving myself and growing... A_Thought:_Everyone_brings their life and past to the table, including their old baggage. WELL, BRING IT ON! It is unrealistic to seek someone who has no baggage. It's my opinion that anyone who claims to have no baggage is lying to me (a big no-no) and thinks I am a fool (also, a no-no) or, worse yet, is lying to themselves and is probably setting themselves up for a lot of problems down the road. We all have "history" or "baggage" as long as you have it under control, I have no problem with your "baggage". I am looking for a friend, a lover, an explorer, an easy spirit, a seeker, a fantasy, a dreamer, a shameless , a caring companion, a do-er, an activities/workout partner, a sexy, playful, bright, funny, sometimes goofy, charming, graceful, elegant, perfectly flawed, spirited, beauty to share casual fun... and...you know... One night? I'd love it! It's a great way to start. . . But, I'd prefer several or many and some afternoons too. I'd like a special friendship that's on-going, occasional, and recurring, someone who I could call, or who could call me when the need or needs arise. I'd like a fun-buddy. Boo"T"-caller/callee. Let's_find_something_fun, experimental and exciting, fun (did I mention that)and friendly....... ( I am STRAIGHT. I have no problem with any man who isn't and have no problem being around gay or bi men. But guys, I am straight. Thank you, anyway. . . . . . . . .) My_favorites? Favorite_food-type? Favorite music? I have to say, I honestly couldn't choose just one or two favorites of anything, I like to find qualities that I can like in everything. TURN - ONs? . . .now that's a long list. Look, I love sex, love lust, sex in any form, any flavor, is always always wanted, always good and always welcome. Vanilla sex to something freaky or kinky... it's ALL good (great){I'm trying to grow here, experience life}. > ATTITUDE. A great attitude is a huge turn-on. > ENTHUSIASM. Enthusiasm may just be the biggest turn-on there is. Not only a willingness to do something but an excitement. > CURIOSITY. > INTELLIGENCE. Give me a smart woman anytime and I know I'll have fun. > CONFIDENCE. You know you've got it. show it. > PASSION/LUST/DESIRE. >CLEVERNESS, _a_sense of MISCHEIF, HUMOR, WIT and casual ELEGANCE will also always excite me. > Turn-offs? rudeness, spitefulness, bad teeth, littering, Bush-supporters, sneakiness, racist-ness (just made-up a new word, I think.), angry-drunken-ness, passionless-ness, snobbishness, Prudish-ness? I_am_NOT_looking_for_"LOVE". "In Love" isn't my focus right now. Of course, I don't know if you can necessarily dodge it if it's destined. I_don't_believe_one_needs_to be IN love to be LOVING, to be lovers. And Lovers don't need to make a LIFEtime "commitment" to share moments that are rich and special, even important or amazing... moments that nurture and enrich the people who participate, enrich them inside and out, mind body and soul... I want to find an on-going, occasional, discrete, intense, intimate, sexual, fun, funny, freaky, unique friendship/relationship/arrangement. Oh, I am a sleazebag. At least I am PART sleazebag. I AM a MAN. And hell yes, I want to have sex with you. But I am also a good man, a nice man and a caring man. And, as I say in my profile, altho I am not looking for a relationship, I'm open to any possiblities. I would luv to find a sexy, little-bit-slutty, smart, hot, naughty princess that I could enjoy for the rest of my days. But she would have to be all those things and be open to occasionally allowing somewhat unconventionally flexible relationship constraints. I might love you, I suppose time will tell. But I DO believe in love. I have had love. I have enjoyed several loving women and long term relationships based on love. I enjoy love and I enjoy loving. I enjoy being in love and I enjoy making love. I also enjoy "fucking" and cumming and fucking some more. But these things aren't mutually exclusive, nor are they necessarily coexistant or coincidental or necessarily concurring. I am not out to convince you that I'm a good man or a nice guy or that love is here or there or waiting for you around the next corner. You are going to find the answers about all of these topics. ...if you are open to it.

My Ideal Person A woman with a great attitude is a huge turn-on.
A woman with enthusiasm and excitement.
A woman curious to explore. She'll lead me to new places
or let me lead her.
A woman of intelligence, not necessarily "education"
but intelligence.
A woman with passion, lust and desires. Who isn't embarrassed
about her wants and her curiosity
A clever woman who can be mischievous, humorous, witty
with a casual elegance, that she can shed to be the vixen,
nasty and dirty.

A healthy/fit woman with curves and rhythm.

Single and spicy?
Married?
MILF?
Younger women?
Older women?

LET'S ENJOY EACH OTHER !!!

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Linkin Park, Coldplay, Imogen heap, Van Halen

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Latex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each, #1: ENTHUSIASM / attitude, an open mind, willingness to try

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
The List:

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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