[B]Fantasies are amazing things. [/B]They can energize us, excite us, add interest to our relationships, and motivate us. They can facilitate our growth by taking us out of our comfort zone, deepen our communication with our partner, and aid in self-discovery. They can also embarrass us, haunt us, drive us, and even scare us. Some fantasies yearn to give us precious gifts through their fulfillment. Others are best left in the safe and ethereal world of our imaginations. Few people have the fortune of being able to move appropriate fantasies from the world of the unseen into the physical world in a protected, safe and supportive environment. To those who have that rare and special opportunity, many doors open -- doors of awareness, understanding, self-revelation, deepened love, and profound communication. Our desire is to create that protected, safe and supportive environment, where we all have the opportunity to explore our fantasies with others who are caring and nonjudgmental. We are looking for a few select couples and individuals who are interested in joining us. Is this you? [B]Who are you?[/B] You are mature enough to be accepting of other's sexuality without judgement (as well as your own). You are brave enough to be vulnerable and to reveal and discuss your own fantasies in a safe context. You are caring enough to be willing to help fulfill the fantasy of another (without requiring that you cross your own boundaries). You are self-aware enough to declare your own boundaries without prejudice of another's. You are sensitive enough to be willing to expand your limits into areas of new growth. If you are in a relationship, you are secure in that relationship and both of you are safe with everything this opportunity means. If you are alone, you realize that here you are not alone, and, thus, you need seek no claim on another. You are male, female, gay, bi, straight, transgendered, or transexual. And, whatever your preference, you accept the preferences of others. Whoever you are, and whatever your orientation, love, friendship and caring are important to you. You believe that sex is more than mechanics, and provides a wondrous opportunity for exploration of the deeper side of you. You recognize sex as a valuable vehicle for expressing love and caring for others. You accept all races, all religions, all political persuasions. You know there is something much deeper inside you that seeks to be discovered, and yearns for expression. You are ready to allow that expression. You are willing and eager to encourage that expression of self-discovery and self-revelation in others. [B]Who are you not? [/B] You are not a drama-king or drama-queen. You are not interested in adding notches to your bedpost. You are not a party animal. You are not interested in entanglements. Does this reate with you? If so, send us a message. We would like to form a group of responsible, mature, discreet and clean adults who are willing to create a safe environment where we can all explore our deeper natures through responsible fantasy fulfillment. Boundaries are respected. You will never be pressured to participate in any activity that is unacceptable to you. Are you ready to join us?

My Ideal Person We are looking for individuals or couples who are ready to put in the effort to create a safe, playful environment based upon friendship and mutual caring. The most important qualities are respect, caring, discretion, integrity, maturity, creativity, playfulness, disease-free, openness and honesty. All wrapped up in a desire to explore and understand more of yourself, your partner (if you have one), and others.

Friendship is important. After all, this is all based upon sharing, caring and safety.

Not welcome or wanted: Entanglements, drama, immaturity, or arrested emotional development. If you can't be discreet, if you just want to hop into bed, or you just want to party, this is not for you.