R.T.F.M. simply means "read the F*cking manual", as in read my profile COMPLETELY before proceeding. I apologize upfront for sounding crass or caustic, but it saves everyone precious time. Straight, 6'0, 198 lb African-am(dark caramel complexion) with mid-back length dredlocks. Clean, witty, sense of humor(wicked), intelligent, can converse on practically any level. Athletic built, level headed. I'm casual suave by definition. I'm really not much of a "one night, let's hit it and quit it" type of guy and [b][COLOR red][SIZE 4]NOT CURRENTLY SEEKING ANY RELATIONSHIPS....FRIENDLY CHAT ONLY[/SIZE][/COLOR][/B]. I love a good conversation and I like to get to know a per[s](and them me) before taking things to another level. Ideally, we chat either by email/chat or on the phone, meet in a public area, have some tea/coffee(preferably Chai with extra caramel), etc, while feeling each other out. If we like the chemistry we can explore other options. If we don't, then we part as friends and keep in touch(trust me, once you've met me you'll find my charm irresistable). Can I emphasize this enough? I am not seeking a relationship or seeking to meet for anything other than cordial or platonic relationships. I've met some wonderful women from this site, all of whom, I consider to be great friends. Yes, men like me really do exist!!! Lastly, I am a firm believer of this GOLDEN RULE, that people are who they are, what folks do in their peral lives is their business, who am I to judge? That said, gays, TV, cross dressers, etc please understand that while I believe in always being polite and cordial, do not misunderstand my observance of said GOLDEN RULE as an "interest", you will receive the same level of respect that you offer. As no one can or should try to pursuade you to be any different than you are, NO ONE IS GOING TO PURSUADE OR CONVINCE ME to change my preference for BIOLOGICAL WOMEN. Violate this rule and one will find my humor to become vicious and mean-spirited.

My Ideal Person UPDATE

You will find me in the Ebony Room chat. Be forewarned, if you are sensitive to raw and/or wicked humor, if you are incapable of laughing at your own silliness or if you're of the anal retentive pursuasion, my style of humor may not be for you and you'd probably want to not to initiate contact(LO. I don't trip on physical attributes and I am more impressed by what's between a woman's ears--as opposed to what's between her legs.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Bob Marley, Carl Thomas, El Grand Combo, Buju Banton, Luther
Vandross, Old Skool , Old Skool R&B

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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