In building a relationship I believe these things count the most; chemistry,common values,appreciation of and shared humor, lots of laughter, trust, stimulating conversation,no drama , peace and joy,great passion, open and transparent communications,acceptance, respect,and above all honesty. did I mention great passion? good because that's VERY important . A good relationship really needs it all. Guys, I'm not on this site for fun, recreation,entertainment or sport .I'm trying my very best to find my best , love and partner for life. A comfortable shoe where I only have to be me .