So what do I like? I like men who are submissive. I like roleplay too and uniforms; security police woman you name it if we dress up, for me I guarantee we'll both enjoy it. I prefer ropes to chains cuffs and straps. cloth gags over ball gags and the like. I don't like extreme violence but a little punishment is always sexy and fun. I believe that like any other form of intimate relationship one with bondage or BDSM at its heart is a learning curve for everyone no matter how experienced you are or think you are because each new relationship brings with it different challenges. Everyone's different and different people like different things and equally dislike other things. I believe you cant and shouldn't make assumptions. Just because you tried something with your ex, who was really turned on by something doesn't mean your new man equally into it. You need to check. Its called manners! Also I know and accept that just because I'm a Dom doesn't mean that I have the right to do whatever the hell I want to irrespective of my partners wishes. Its his body after all and I know I'm being given a great honor and privilege by being allowed to play with him. I think its about mutual pleasure and acceptance of boundaries. I think its important to value and respect the slave I'm with. I feel its important to know the rules before we start to play and then we can both relax and let go. More than anything I believe trust and communication are the key here so Im looking for a partner who I can share a mutually exciting experience with based on safety and agreed boundaries. Someone who ideally I can grow and expand our joint experiences with and who will be my partner in all things. To me its not really about one person controlling another. Its about two people sharing a fantasy. Two sides of the same coin coming together to form a whole. Whilst my captive you can expect to experience being tied up in different positions including but not limited to being tightly hogtied chair-tied tied to my dining room table or spread-eagled on a bed. You will be made to kneel before your mistress. You may be put over my knee and spanked I will tie your hands above your head and hang you from a ceiling hook so that you can only just reach the ground on your tip toes. You will be teased and excited, edged and denied orgasm until you beg me to fuck you.

My Ideal Person Short term: A male sub who isn't afraid to try new things with the knowledge that the mistress he's with is adequately experienced and has his safety happiness and wellbeing at the core of her nature and wants to help him experience his fantasies whilst she explores her own.