We are a couple that have been together for several years. Married, but not to each other. Both of us are trying hard to get in shape. We work out several times a week and try and eat right. We are not Ken and Barbie but she does get stares from a lot of men. We have a great sex life, very compatible with each other but we would like to see we could find some others to join us. With our crazy schedules there is not a lot of spare time to spend trying to find the right playmates so be patient with us. We both have experience playing with others. His is mainly threesomes and foursomes, she has swapped partners many times before. Although she prefers having sex with men that doesn't mean she won't get things started playing with another woman but she must be very attracted to her. We must be attracted to another couple before taking the first step. But if that attraction is there we could have fun together for a while. We are not the go to the bar type of couple and would rather get together somewhere for drinks or dinner and see where things go from there. We are not interested in single males. Couples and single females only. Safe sex is a must......no exceptions.

My Ideal Person The ideal person or couple? In a perfect world it would be a fit, attractive couple that just wants to get together for a good time. No drama, no baggage, just fun. In reality we would like to meet a couple or single woman that we find attractive and where there is some chemistry.

Our preference would be to always be in the same room whether it is full swap, soft swap, threesomes, etc. We are open to almost anything except pain.

She has the final say in who we meet and what we do.