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The pornification of the Pornited States of Pornerica  

40Deuce 46M
4634 posts
3/27/2018 4:41 pm

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The pornification of the Pornited States of Pornerica

If I can mean for a minute (and I feel like I can since this is the internet) it's insane how many 'kind, open-minded, sweet, loving affectionate women" with "a great sense of humor and passion" there are on AdultFriendFinder when I've only met a couple in real life . Truly the cream of the crop are on AdultFriendFinder .

The girl Flo Rida sings about in Low was wearing apple bottom jeans , boots with the fur , baggy sweatpants AND reeboks with the straps all at the same time so we must conclude that she was , in fact , a centaur . Which explains why she was attracting so much attention in the club .

People preach about teamwork and I guess it's kind of okay but here is what a looks like when drawn using teamwork ;



Speaking of teamwork I was in a meeting today and I realized that in my new job 95% of the employees are dudes . Maybe that's just how IT works - if you have daughters make sure you pressure them into STEM careers . My old office may have been part of an evil corrupt enterprise but they had diversity on lock . Except in management of course .

Speaking of work realistically I didn't think there was a way I could hate myself more (obviously it was possible if you think about implausible scenarios) but my new job has taught me that I can . Towards that end I've started reading a book about how the normalization of watching porn is one of the many things contributing to our OBVIOUS decline as a society . As society has OBVIOUSLY been declining since history started being recorded .

This book makes the claim , as many sources do , that if you like shaved pussies you're one step away from being a pedo . Since I like shaved pussies obviously I don't care for this theory . Because if even if it's true what I am supposed to do with that information ? I can't stop liking shaved pussies .

I don't know about anyone else but here's my counter-argument . Hair is gross . Do you want hair in your mouth ? Because I don't . Imagine that you're on your sweet leather couch making out with some dude and he starts nuzzling your hair - and then the next thing you know he's sucking on your hair and licking all up on your scalp . What would you do ? I tell you what you'd do , you'd grab your Custom Handmade Fixed Blade Tactical Tanto Tracker Knife with Maple Burl Handle out of your purse and you'd jam it into that guy (or gal)'s neck because hair doesn't go in your mouth . And then the police would show up and they'd ask what happened and you'd say "he (or she) was licking my hair" and they'd say "we understand" and they'd take the body for you and toss it in the river and forget about the whole thing .

And answer me this smarty-pants psychology professor that wrote that book and isn't reading this - why don't you say the same thing about women shaving their legs ? Or their armpits ? Or any of the ten thousand other places women remove hair ? Huh ? Huh ? Not so big now are you ?

I've never heard anyone be castigated for liking shaved legs . Well I have , but not for that reason .

Have you ever heard people , of any gender , talk about a woman who had a single hair on her nipple ? UNACCEPTABLE !!!! If you're a woman with hair nipples you're basically shunned from society can cast out to live on the island of Dr. Moreau where you're definitely going to the House of Pain because you don't even know the Law .

Hairy nipples = forbidden

Hairless pussies = you're a psycho

That math doesn't add up .

"Well 40 if that was true you'd like a woman who shaved her head !"

I would love that ! A woman with a shaved head really turns me on because I am anti-hair . Hair is disgusting animal bullshit and I an ashamed to be the upright ape that I am rather a sleek , smooth dolphin-man . I'd wax my whole body if society didn't say it was weird for a man to do it .

My main point is this . I basically agree that porn is bad and I shouldn't watch it (and yet I do) but what's the plan of action ? Even if we outlaw all the porn and get rid of it that doesn't change the fact that me and lots of scum-suckers like me WANT to watch it . Where's the root cause analysis ? Even if we agree porn has all these bad effects on society they're not going to go away if the demand is still there right ? It's like being a dry drunk right ? Even when you don't have access to booze that doesn't solve whatever made you want to get black out drunk 247365 right ?

It's like this , I am in no way against gun control legislation , but even if we get all the guns out of the hands of the "bad" people they're still out there . They still WANT to shoot everyone even if they can't . What's being done about that ? Treat the symptoms , sure , but what about the disease ?

Meanwhile , wrestling ;




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40Deuce 46M
5725 posts
3/27/2018 4:43 pm

Sometimes I want to blog about people I find out about who are doing bad stuff cybersecuritywise but I'm afraid they'll somehow vanity search the entire internet and see me talking smack about them and send all their botnets after me . So I don't . Even though it's a silly fear .

Putting clients first by putting employees first, immediately after prioritizing fiscal responsibilities and leveraging profitability towards exceeding by empowering our employees to put clients (and themselves) first, in a diverse and respectful environment of only those that come first, first.


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
3/27/2018 7:00 pm

Re, women and computer science, I heard someone say in an interview that in the early days of computer science there were LOTS of women. Then it became a big deal field where a person could make a lot of money, so of course the men took it over.

No idea whether that's really true but it did resonate.


40Deuce replies on 3/30/2018 5:02 pm:
I don't quite follow that , are you suggesting that there are lots of women interested in IT but they don't get hired ? I'm not sure I can believe that since there's tons of IT jobs with no one to fill them . I know we hate women in this country but I don't think we hate them so much we'd rather have a job empty than hire a woman .

Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
3/27/2018 7:44 pm

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    Re, women and computer science, I heard someone say in an interview that in the early days of computer science there were LOTS of women. Then it became a big deal field where a person could make a lot of money, so of course the men took it over.

    No idea whether that's really true but it did resonate.
Makes total sense. The male knows the more money he has, the more women he can attract. For women, making lots of money only means she can be that much more independent. ....And of course the more attractive she is, the less hard she has to work. ....So in computer sciences, you're not likely to find hot looking women , like they show in TV shows and movies.


partygald 41F
1963 posts
3/27/2018 11:03 pm

That’s Sofia Vergara. Didn’t know she likes wrestling. Then again, I don’t know anything about her except that I like Modern Family. Even that means I know nothing about her. I’d call myself Jon Snow if it isn’t already passé.
And meh. Hairless is over-rated. Although I do go hairless everywhere except for my eyelashes, brows and on scalp mostly. I do let it all grow out too at times. I Guess like the weather, it’s seasonal. Again, not contributing to the above mentioned argument. Except maybe I have the same preference on my partners. Sometimes hairless, and sometimes hairfull.
Hmm....wonder what that makes me?


40Deuce replies on 3/30/2018 5:03 pm:
I'm pretty sure it's her husband that likes it

smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
3/30/2018 9:59 pm

No I'm not saying that there are lots of women in computer science who then don't get hired. I'm saying that there are fewer women are going into the field now (as a percentage).

There were many women pioneers in computer science, but,
"The gender gap in computing jobs has gotten worse in the last 30 years, even as computer science job opportunities expand rapidly, according to research from Accenture and Girls Who Code.

In 1984, 37 percent of computer science majors were women, but by 2014 that number had dropped to 18 percent, according to the study. The computing industry's rate of U.S. job creation is three times the national average, but if trends continue, the study estimates that women will hold only 20 percent of computing jobs by 2025."

That's as a percentage - it would be interesting to find out if in absolute numbers, the number of women studying computer science has remained the same while male interest has increased. Thus in effect, "men taking it over". Not necessarily as a malicious way of keeping women down, just them flooding into a field once it became a lucrative growth sector.

And yes, women could be flooding into the field too...that is the challenge, how to get and keep them interested. The same article I quoted said that girls have interest in middle school but then it declines in high school...probably because it's not "cool" for girls to be into coding.


40Deuce replies on 3/31/2018 12:33 pm:
Ah I see , you're suggesting just that most IT people are men because they seek the money

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